Why do Men cheat?

Recently, media is spreading a new about Tiger Wood is cheating his wife Elin Norgegren; who he has been married for six years. And, it's so frequent it may seem that most of the million dollars men who has engaged or has a family themselves cheat on theirs' wives or partner.

Some media reported that Tiger Wood should have at least 11 mistress. Can you imagine?


On and off, there is a new cheating case report in the newspaper and the affair of the married men is neverending. It seems that most of the men in the earth are unfaithful in their lives.

Well, let's take look on these celebrities...

Back in year 2004, the world famous Mr. charming David Beckham was having an affair with Rebecca Loos; who was his personal assistant. Well, we all knew that David Beckham is having a gorgeous wife- Victoria Beckham who's a mother of 3 David's sons.

In 2005, the fairy tale romance of Brad Pitt and Jenifer Anistion ended with divorce. During their wedding in 2000, the couple spent USD 1 mil for the wedding and Jen's wedding ring was designed by Brad. As reported, Brad Pitt and Angelia Jolie had a relationship while they filmed "Mr and Mrs Smith". And, they're officially "Mr and Mrs Pitt" now.

Black Eyed Peas core singer- Fergie's husband Josh Duhamel was reported had an affair with stripper Nicole Forrester after 9 months of their marriage.

The host of the "late show"- David Letterman shocked his audiences after confessing his sexual affair with female employees.

Sir Charming Jude Law had an affair with the nanny and causing his split with Sienna Miller.

Not forget to mention here, Asia's famous Kung Fu star- Jackie Chan had an affair with one of the HK movie star before. Jackie has a good wife who quit her career as an actress during her peak time.

Other than million dollars men, some of the "plebeians" do cheat too. Is man borns to be a liar?
It's just their "natural" or " is their "instinct of curiosity"? Well, there are some good men out there too. However, there are only 20% - 30% of the men in the earth that won't cheat.

These are some reasons that I think why men cheat:

1. Certainly, it needs two hands to clap. One of the reasons why do men cheat is; they're having a demanding, fussy and grumpy wife or girlfriend who wants everything to be perfect and deliver on time. Whenever her man cannot satisfy her needs; they will create a havoc.

As such, we can see that most of the men have affair with those gals who are tender because
men could find a peace of mind there and they could get what they want there too.

2. Men cheat to keep them satisfy, they need excitement especially when they're rich and have a representative status in the society. They're just playing around and claiming that they're not giving 100% of love to the mistress. Some men may think that affair will keep them "young" and in love again.

3. Men are born to be flirtatious, they like to fool around and sleep with gals.

I could not think more factors that causing men cheat. However, if a man who really loves his partner, please do not tear her apart by cheat on her. Relationship is about sharing and giving.
Imagine, your other half is doing the same thing to you, cheat on you and rise a cute guy outside there; would you feel hurt too?

So, whenever, a couple is having a problem, try to talk to each other. Just don't give up and WORK it out. Relationship is not always happy and end up like fairy tale especially in a hectic working environment now. whenever there is a problem, just try putting some efforts to solve the problem or trying to communicate with each other.

Remember, during the initial stage of the relationship, both were enjoyed and loved each other so much, never ever ruin your relationship by running to other womon/ man. Because, eventually, the same problem will occur in the future.

It's going to 1 am and I need to go to bed now. If you ask me, why on earth that i blog this topic out? It just cross my mind while i read an article about Tiger Wood affair today.

Certainly, i am not an expert to talk about this;i just share to you all. Enjoy reading!

Welcome 2010!

Happy 2010!

It’s been an “age” since I last blog. If you ask me, what on earth that I am busying with lately? Well, I myself have no clue on that. Sometime, I din even turn on my laptop for 2 to 3 weeks; can you imagine that? My laptop is used to be part of my life and I feel sorry for it that I do not use it as frequent as I used to be last time.

My last update back in August was the one that Jane wanted me to come out as she told me that there was no update of my blog since June. To abandon my blog; this is not what I want. Initially, I set up the blog, my intention is to convey the knowledge or to share whatever I have/know. Since it’s New Year, I gotta write something before the clock turns 12am.

Looking back my 2009 New Year resolutions; Emm…how many of it that I really achieved?

Summary of 2009 New Year Resolutions:

1. Increase personal's wealth (ok, not too bad).
2. At least two sports a week (80% achieved).
3. Free from doctor and away from medi (still ok, 60%)
4. Cut down the unnecessary cost (all the things that I bought, I think they are all essential and necessary).
5. More loves and cares for my family (still have space for improvement)
6. Control my emotion- rarely happen (90% achieved).
7. Work smart (always doing it)
8. Travel to...Egypt? Gotta be realistic...visit China, Korea or Australia by end of this year. (nope, I only travelled to Phuket and Krabi last year).
9. Read more (spent most of the time reading).
10. Finally...be happy! (I guess, I am).

Looking back my 2009, how was it? And, what were the most memorable things that I ‘ve done for 2009?

Firstly, I think I was a better person in 2009.

Secondly, I have my own home.

Thirdly, peace… and I really appreciate and thanks GODs that answering my prayers of all times.

Well, here are my 2010 New Year resolutions…

1. Increase my personal’s wealth.

2. Keep exercise (I decided to keep myself so fit that even I have turned 50/60, my body figure stays the same, hehehe).

3. Lesser visit to doctor.

4. Cut down the unnecessary expenses.

5. More loves and cares to my family.

6. Cook more delicious food.

7. Work smart.

8. Travel to overseas (I have at least two oversea trips this year on my hands so far, hehehe).

9. Be a better person.

10. Finally, be happy!

Okay, I am here to wish all of you have a happy, prosperous, healthy, wealthy and lovely 2010!!!

Last but not least, remember to LOVE and SAVE the EARTH!